Introduction:
Conducting a mental health test to ascertain marital suitability and compatibility is fine but that is not the case.
mental health, in general, is largely influenced by societal factors that often go ignored. An intriguing element of society is its diversity in cultures and backgrounds that affect an individual’s mental health-related experiences.
In the course of a lifetime, everyone will struggle or have a challenge with their mental well-being (i.e., their mental health) just like we all have challenges with our physical well-being from time to time even though we are certified mentally fit for marital relationship.
Wrong views about marriage (Toxic beliefs; every action starts with a belief) and our choice of relationship top the list of a major force behind blood-shed in relationships.
We fall in love and start a relationship with preconceived notions about what good ones are supposed to be like and how we’re supposed to feel when we're in one. These suppositions not only determine our behavior in the relationship; they also form the rationale for validating our relationship satisfaction and our impressions about long-term compatibility.
Some of the preconceived notions (toxic beliefs) you must unpack to avoid knife stabbing in your relationship;
1. A relationship brings you true happiness. False.
2. You must stay in the relationship at all costs. False
3. Marriage completes you. False
4. There is a perfect person out there. False
5. He or she must know and provide all your needs without asking.
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Yours Truly, Edgar T.A

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