EdgarTa.ga

He Doesn't Want To Propose
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Most men do not associate the giving of their body with the giving of their heart, but women tend to tie the two together. A real woman gives her body only when there is a safe sense of affection and when she is ready to give herself spiritually. It cannot be demanded or paid for. It comes only when she gives it freely and on her terms. She values herself so much to be passed around from man to man. She knows her body and her heart are two jewels in the same crown. She will give that crown only to a man who is worthy. She will give it to a prince.

A young man may be very eager to love her but be terrified to make a commitment that would require him to give his heart. If she asks him to promise undying sex, he would respond without a second thought but when she asks him to promise undying love, he would suddenly develop ants in his emotional pant. He chases women as a hobby rather than risking having a relationship. He is often afraid and intimidated by the expense of an emotional commitment. He wants the coke, but afraid of the cost. It is much easier for him to give his money, his body, his advice but terrified about giving his heart. He goes around frolicking without sharing his heart yet wondering why he is never satisfied. To find satisfaction, he even has more sex. This becomes a problem when he is married. He promised to love and exchanged vows at the altar yet he fears to commit his heart. Then, when he feels the marriage is boring, he looks for fulfillment outside. The bitter part is that he doesn’t realize he is doing something wrong. These kinds of a man are usually the victim of an unhealthy upbringing and traumatic experiences that left them wounded. He must heal completely if he desires to feel safe in her arms.

Do you feel the man I just described fits into the one sitting next to you? You have been dating for months but no sign that he is ready to be committed. Don’t try to offer him more sex in an attempt to make him feel safe to propose unless you want to live all your life on the bed. There is no simple way to deal with such a situation. I suggest both of you seek a professional help or feel free to send us a message via edta34joy@gmail.com or drop your comment to have a real-time session with Edgar T.A if you have tried all means necessary to have him to propose meanwhile never force a man to propose otherwise you won’t like the look of the other side.

This thing called marriage is not a career and your worth is never tied to it so don’t try to kill yourself over it.

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