EdgarTa.ga

(Fix Your Love Story) 

No one can love, respect you better, and treat you right more than your wife if you keep speaking her language. There is no need getting married if you were not ready to be a husband. You remembered that first day you met her, you said sweet words to her that broke her wings, you showed her so much love and was always calling to check up on her. On that cool evening when she finally said yes to your proposal, she gave you a warm hug of acceptance that sent chills up your spine, took your breath away and your heart flew high, on gossamer wings through a cloudless sky and for a moment you felt like you were in cloud 9. Your face became the only face she saw in the midst of the crowd. You loved the feeling, didn't you? You got that sweet feeling from her because you actually asked for it by speaking her language. It was your choice when you asked her to marry you and she agreed believing that you are mentally and psychologically fit to keep speaking her language so she could manifest more of those beautiful side of hers you saw the day she said yes to you. Can you recall the last time you spoke those beautiful words to her again?  Can you recall the last time you chatted and romance over the phone? Can you recall the last time you took her for shopping? Oh! You can't remember! I'm sure you are thinking now. Obviously you can now see the picture where your love story started collecting dust.

At the beginning your excitement almost palpable, you share vivid details about the sweet moments that changed your lives forever. You constantly echo that scenario that has been the basis for romantic books and movies across centuries "Our eyes met across a crowded room and I just knew," but now the once vividly detailed love story  you built your relationship on has suffered shipwreck.

At the beginning of a relationship, we hold a clean slate, containing no mistakes. We set out to be the loving person we tell ourselves we should be, crafting the flawless masterpieces that will become our lives. But, because we are human, we inevitably fall short of some of the expectations we have set for ourselves. As a result, we start by forging a new story from different album. The voices that tell these emerging new stories come from all kinds of places such as loved ones, parents, teachers, bosses, friends, institutions, etc. Some of these voices are condescending, and destructive.

It’s worthy of note that many of these voices are not your own, but you end up embracing them as yours. Eventually you begin to notice the boisterous conversations and broad smiles of other people around you as evidence that they are living a life much better than yours, thinking that everyone else is doing better than you. You begin to focus on your limitations, feeling like the deck is so stacked against you that you would never catch up.

What story are you telling yourself now? 'there is no joy in my relationship, I'm not sure it can get any better, he/she is so unloving n uncaring' And to the single guys, what story are you telling yourselves?  Is it the same old story of how you were heartbroken? How nobody is recognising your beauty again and you don't see yourself getting a loving relationship. God does not fix our love story, it is the story we tell ourselves that creates our reality.

The first place to begin is to identify the poor story you are telling yourself now and challenge them.

If I could get at least a 100 share and a 100 yes to this post,  I will share with you how to fix your lovestory that will bring about the miracle of love you long expected. If this miracle doesn't happen within 30days then stop following this page.

Thanks for reading. Love You dearly!

-Edgar T. A
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