He Doesn't Want To Propose
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Most men do not associate the giving of their body with the giving of their heart, but women tend to tie the two together. A real woman gives her body only when there is a safe sense of affection and when she is ready to give herself spiritually. It cannot be demanded or paid for. It comes only when she gives it freely and on her terms. She values herself so much to be passed around from man to man. She knows her body and her heart are two jewels in the same crown. She will give that crown only to a man who is worthy. She will give it to a prince.

A young man may be very eager to love her but be terrified to make a commitment that would require him to give his heart. If she asks him to promise undying sex, he would respond without a second thought but when she asks him to promise undying love, he would suddenly develop ants in his emotional pant. He chases women as a hobby rather than risking having a relationship. He is often afraid and intimidated by the expense of an emotional commitment. He wants the coke, but afraid of the cost. It is much easier for him to give his money, his body, his advice but terrified about giving his heart. He goes around frolicking without sharing his heart yet wondering why he is never satisfied. To find satisfaction, he even has more sex. This becomes a problem when he is married. He promised to love and exchanged vows at the altar yet he fears to commit his heart. Then, when he feels the marriage is boring, he looks for fulfillment outside. The bitter part is that he doesn’t realize he is doing something wrong. These kinds of a man are usually the victim of an unhealthy upbringing and traumatic experiences that left them wounded. He must heal completely if he desires to feel safe in her arms.

Do you feel the man I just described fits into the one sitting next to you? You have been dating for months but no sign that he is ready to be committed. Don’t try to offer him more sex in an attempt to make him feel safe to propose unless you want to live all your life on the bed. There is no simple way to deal with such a situation. I suggest both of you seek a professional help or feel free to send us a message via edta34joy@gmail.com or drop your comment to have a real-time session with Edgar T.A if you have tried all means necessary to have him to propose meanwhile never force a man to propose otherwise you won’t like the look of the other side.

This thing called marriage is not a career and your worth is never tied to it so don’t try to kill yourself over it.

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In love with Davido

In love with Davido
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Have you found yourself locked away in an ocean of fake hopes, crushing on a footballer, Nollywood, Bollywood, Hollywood actresses or actors, a BET award winner, a preacher, a friend’s husband or wife? Yes! a friend’s spouse. Falling in love is easy but when it comes to falling for someone who will never be yours is a heart-rending process. A process where your soul cries out for a miracle to happen even though you know it will never happen. A process where you’re watching the one you love cherishing someone else yet you keep on loving with no awe. It sometimes become so intense to the extent of having his or her pictures sitting on an 8gb space on your phone, in your room, and it can even lead to masturbating most of the time with his or her picture. You keep on wishing with eyes filled with dreams yet shed tears of pain. A smile of happiness yet a masquerade of buried mysteries. With Unspoken words waiting to be heard and a crater of questions craving for answers. This experience has kept you living life like a candle in the wind never knowing whom to cling to when the rain sets in. Your life is now connected to each and every beat of his or her heart. He or she is the only one with whom you want to walk this beautiful journey of life. No other soul can ever own his or her throne in your heart. The pain is real. The feeling is deep. And it cuts you to a point where you’re on your knees crying alone. Now here you are, stuck in a maze with two exits, holding on and letting go.

This is a very difficult moment for you as your heart just can’t seem to accommodate another person. Every other person coming to date you just don’t seem to understand why all their efforts to make things work out with you ends in deadlock. Don’t you think It’s high time you started to replace the future scenario in your head and create a new ideal future that doesn’t involve that person you are crushing on? I know you have been trying so hard but now I got your back. All of the love you have channeled to the wrong people, it will find its way back to you.

You can send a mail via edta34joy@gmail.com or drop your comment and let’s walk together through the letting go exits. Hence forth you won’t be lost in a crowed where everything looks blurry.

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